I’ve never been one to follow the crowd and I tend to find and do things the way that works best for me. I’ve found that this hasn’t changed for me as I became a parent of twins. I try to go at my own pace and the pace that’s best for my twins. Many times twins are born with special needs or prematurely and require different attention and care than a singleton. Although challenging at times, I try not to compare my twins to any other child, but rather compare their growth and development to themselves as they’ve grown.